after couple of days and nights of nightmares :: well finally i could set up ipv6 at home! it souldn't be that hard as it was - thanx British Telecom!
:: i've got a /48 ipv6 subnet. I've setup my obsd box as an ipv6 router, but then, then just came that took 2 days from my life. somehow every second packet got lost if i was transfering from the /48 subnet. i thought that my route table causes this, but after 2 days i've gave up and got an ipv6 tunnel + subnet from someone else (thanx thuglife), and suprisingly everything went ok, after i've setup the tunnel + the routing. So thanx again BT
:: oh yeah, here's my pf.conf. altq isn't so good, so i'll have to make some changes in it.